My Parent's House: A Story About Letting Go With Dignity.
- Anonymous

- May 21
- 1 min read
When my father passed, the house felt like a museum.
His boots were still by the door.

The kitchen still smelled like coffee, and the basement still held tools older than me.
I didn’t know what to do with any of it.
I’d grown up in that house, but I hadn’t lived there in decades.
Suddenly, I was the one in charge of a property, of memories, of a decision I didn’t see coming.

The roof needed work. The neighbor’s lawn had crept over the fence line.
And inside, I was overwhelmed by boxes, photos, and the ache of what had been.
I thought I’d rent it.
Then I thought I’d fix it.
But I didn’t have the time, or the energy, or the funds.
What I needed was clarity, and someone who wouldn’t rush me.
Eventually, I talked to a broker who just listened.
No pressure.
No sales pitch.
Just help.
We made a plan to get the house emptied, cleaned, and listed with dignity.
And in a few weeks, someone else saw the same potential my parents once had.
I was able to grieve and let go, without guilt.
Have you been through this?




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